Here are some of many ways to search for one's happiness..
1. some look around them
2. a few look inside themselves
3. some groups creates their own aims, and obtain happiness either by achieving their goals, or on the way there
4. others go to far exotic lands, where the different cultures makes it almost fairy tale like
5. find that special someone
6. strengthen your family bonds/relationships with gifts, spending time together, etc
7. sleep early for 8 hours and wake up without missing the pillow
8. find it in other's happy-ness
9. do a physical activity that you like
10. play games with your friends
11. go for an adventure
12. lose a game to a 9 year old (except Dota/LoL - I feel like wringing the necks of those little foul-mouthed buggers)
13. help a complete stranger
14. donate
15. listen to music
16. watch a movie/sitcom
17. go to fairs/carnivals and ride a rollercoaster, or any other like minded stuff for the thrill
18. play with the cat next door
19. wear that fancy outfit for a day
20. read the Quran
21. read a book
22. do a random good deed
23. forget about the trifle human rules and regulations
24. forget the criticism and condemnations, if you cant make it constructive
25. concentrate on the positive side
26. make a list of things you like to do that make you happy
27. make a list of thing you'd like to do
28. read comics
29. look at old pictures of adventures past, family and friends, and a younger, smarter, fitter, and better looking you
30. eat out, preferably with friends/family
31. chocolates
32. cheese...or cheesecakes
33. make a chocolate drink, find a comfortable, cozy position and read a good book or watch a favorite sitcom/movie
Things NOT to do
- finding happiness in hurting others
- decide what is happy for yourself, and accepting nothing else
- do something reckless and permanently damaging
- drugs, smoke, alcohol
- do wrong just to see how it feels like
- laugh at the unwilling expense of others
- spend3
- sleep3
- be a couch potato full time
- keep dreaming
-propagate hate
I made lists like this whenever I was down,
I found out something too, people really like to read hate instigating stuff than anything else..the only things to counter them are exceptionally inspiring stuff
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